Tuesday, May 24, 2011

Thoughts on a hot Sunday afternoon

Now and again i see many people who have 100s of regrets in life, 1000s who wish for a second chance and millions who blame their luck or God.Many of them are unhappy in their life.Not satisfied with what they have,they go behind different useless,stupid and most often dangerous means to keep them satisfied, or in their own words, enjoy their life.
So in nutshell the main problem is in finding what true happiness is.For a millionaire it might be his next business deal,for a prophet , the way to find inner peace,for a student,getting a good score,for drunkards,finding money to drink at a famous bar....it varies...
Happiness is defined differently to each person.What we have to make sure is how much good our happiness is ..
And there you have the next hurdle.What is good ?My bro once told me that there is no good and bad.Humans make them all.I guess he is right.What is right for one may not be so for others.No wonder people say life is complicated.It sure is.
I was one of the many who wished for a booklet from God that will tell me the exact difference between right and wrong.I had made many numerous foolish decisions in life, which i like to call as my experiments now.To many, it looks like the unjustified behavior of an idiot,but to me each was a lesson,on what i must never do again.
After 20+ years,and a million tears,now i know for sure that i will be OK wherever i am, because i know what i should never do.
And the most important thing is that, unlike many others,i don't have regrets or complaints about my past.I have so much to be grateful for , every day that i don't really get time for complaints.I just say my thanks for being with me throughout..I have faith in my God.

A final note...

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